Written on a Wednesday
A Letter from Stefan
Every week I write an honest letter about something from my life that has made me think.
No marketing.
No pretending to have all the answers.
Just one honest letter each week.
The latest letter

Sometimes we just need someone to listen
I've had a couple of experiences recently that have left me thinking about what I do as a life coach, and perhaps more importantly, why I do it.
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Where it all began
Looking for a place that felt like home.
Hello, This week I've been reflecting on why I started building Your Life, Your Call.
Earlier letters
The other side of uncomfortable
I've recently joined a choir, and while I'm enjoying the singing, there's one part I'm finding rather uncomfortable. It's got me thinking about the things we resist, even when they're part of something we genuinely want to do.
When easy becomes avoidance
Modern life gives us countless ways to make things easier. But sometimes, without realising it, easier becomes a way of avoiding the things we need to face.
The Stefan of today
Life has a way of pulling us along. Sometimes we just need a little space to come back to today, learn from yesterday, and remember that tomorrow will come soon enough.
Go through the motions. Go through the emotions.
Yesterday wasn't a particularly good day. I felt frustrated, angry at times, and stressed. There were things I wanted to control that I couldn't control, and things I wanted to say that probably wouldn't have helped anyone if I'd said them.
It only took me 58 years to understand money
It has taken me 58 years to really start understanding money.
Should AI alarm us?
There has been so much conversation about AI over the past few years, and quite understandably a lot of it has been about what we might lose. Jobs being replaced, people becoming too dependent on technology, and the speed at which all of this seems to be moving. I understand those concerns, and I certainly don't pretend to know where all of this is going.
At some point, you have to let people in
I've spent much of this year building Your Life, Your Call, and there's something quite comfortable about being in that building stage. There is always another page to work on, another idea to try, something that isn't quite right or something I suddenly realise I could do better.
Technology Should Make the Introduction
Hello, In the quiet moments, I get my inspiration. This morning, just after twelve minutes of meditation, a thought came to me. There are now so many ways technology can reach us.
I Don't Want to Get Back to Normal
Hello, I'm sitting here writing this on my second day back home after six weeks away with the family.
I Didn't Need Another Business Plan
This week I thought I needed a business plan. Your Life, Your Call has grown from an idea for a website into something much bigger, and with that comes responsibility.
Looking for a place that felt like home.
Hello, This week I've been reflecting on why I started building Your Life, Your Call.